The Waiting Well - Infertility, Faith-based Encouragement, Trying to Conceive, Fertility

Are you constantly asking God, why me? Why am I not getting pregnant? Why am I going through infertility? Are you scouring the internet for answers for how to navigate infertility and trying to conceive as a Christian? Are you looking for faith-based support on your fertility journey because no one in your circle really knows what you’re going through? Do you wish you could be at peace with God, your story, and learn to see the goodness of God in your waiting season? In this podcast, you will find faith-based encouragement and support for your TTC & infertility journey, whether you’re navigating IVF, IUI, fertility treatments or simply just waiting, you do NOT have to walk this road alone. Hi, I’m Courtney Duinker, host of the Waiting Well Podcast… I remember how it felt five years in to our infertility story, standing in the aisle of Target right after a failed IUI treatment, holding back tears as I reached for a box of tampons when a couple who was clearly expecting came down the aisle. They were smiling as they talked while holding a new pack of diapers. My heart sank. I couldn’t help the one question bubbling to the surface as my heartache over not conceiving overwhelmed me…. will it ever be my turn? I felt forgotten, lost and wanted to tap out of the roller coaster of infertility we seemed to be stuck on. I didn’t know how to find peace with God. I wrestled to believe or see His goodness. And at one point, my faith felt completely shattered. I felt so alone in our pain & suffering. As we faced questions around treatment options, I was so confused. What was God’s plan? What were we supposed to do? I so desperately wanted to honor God even with our fertility journey. But I wrestled with how. This is what led to creating The Waiting Well. A virtual “well” where TTC women can come together and be equipped with God’s Word, encouraged, challenged and ultimately supported as we learn to wait well on God’s timing. Each week I’ll share faith-based encouragement from my own infertility journey, provide information from expert guests on navigating infertility/TTC, powerful testimonials, answer common questions with scripture and share top tips on stewarding your health through this demanding journey. My mission is to equip you to live an “even if” life… Even if God doesn’t answer my prayer, or grant me this desire to be a mother, I will still praise Him. He is still good. And my life, my identity, my worth is a sure thing I find in Him alone. If you are ready to take back control of your life, find peace with God, joy in the in-between spaces and thrive in your waiting season, then meet me at the well girl. We’ve got some intentional growth to do. Connect with Me: Instagram: @sownwithstrength Work Virtually w/ Me on your Health + Fitness Goals: https://bit.ly/healthywithcourt The Waiting Well Free FB Community Group: https://bit.ly/waitingwellcommunity Join my Email List & Receive a Freebie (my Fav 5 Bible Verses to Help You in the Wait): https://bit.ly/purposeinthewait Email: hello@thewaitingwellpodcast.com

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2 days ago

💛 Episode Summary:
Angry at God for Not Being Pregnant Yet? Biblical Truth When You’re Bitter, Tired, and Still Waiting
If you’ve ever whispered “Why me, God?” through tears… this episode is for you.
In today’s raw and faith-rooted conversation, I’m sharing the personal lies I believed during my own TTC journey—the silent, heavy ones that kept me stuck in bitterness and fear—and the exact Scriptures God used to meet me in the middle of that anger.
You’ll learn how to identify toxic thought patterns, renew your mind with truth even when your emotions haven’t caught up, and reclaim peace when nothing in your body or situation seems to be changing.
Because infertility isn’t just physical—it's spiritual, emotional, and deeply mental. And God wants to meet you there too. 💛
✨ You’ll walk away with:
A biblical roadmap to release anger and bitterness
Practical tools to fight back against mental spirals
Hope that healing is possible—even before your circumstances change
 
🔗 Links + Resources Mentioned:
💫 Ready for deeper, faith-based support on your fertility journey?
🌿 Join the waitlist for The Waiting Well Framework — an 8 week Christ-centered coaching container for Christian women navigating infertility. Be the first to know when we launch:👉 https://courtneyduinker.myflodesk.com/waitingwellwaitlist 
 
🤍 Faith-Filled Masterclasses:
✨ Finding Hope through Infertility – Learn how to live with peace and joy even while you wait ($17):👉 Grab it here
 
💍 Thrive in Marriage through TTC – Strengthen your marriage in the middle of this journey ($17):👉 Get it here
💌 Let’s Stay Connected:
📲 Follow me on Instagram for daily encouragement and behind-the-scenes: @thewiatingwellpodcast📬 Email: hello@courtneyduinker.com🌐 Website: courtneyduinker.com
 
💛 Did This Episode Encourage You?
If today’s episode blessed you, inspired you, or gave you a new perspective—would you consider leaving a review on Apple Podcasts? 🌟 It helps more women find hope in their waiting season—and I send a little thank-you gift to one reviewer each week!👉 Leave a review here

Monday May 12, 2025

💛 Episode Summary:
If you’ve ever felt like your mind is working against you while trying to conceive — this episode is for you.
In today’s conversation, we’re talking about one of the most important (and most overlooked) parts of the waiting season: your thought life. Because not every thought you think is true… especially when the enemy is loud, your heart is tired, and the waiting feels endless.
I’ll share personal lies I believed during my own TTC journey, the scriptures that helped me fight back, and practical steps you can take to renew your mind — even when your emotions haven’t caught up yet.
You’ll walk away with tools to:
Identify the toxic thoughts keeping you stuck
Replace lies with biblical truth
Reclaim mental peace, even when nothing’s changing physically
Because infertility is more than just a physical battle — it’s spiritual, emotional, and deeply mental.And God wants to meet you there too. 💛
 
🔗 Links + Resources Mentioned:
💫 Ready for deeper, faith-based support on your fertility journey?
🌿 Join the waitlist for The Waiting Well Framework — an 8 week Christ-centered coaching container for Christian women navigating infertility. Be the first to know when we launch:👉 https://courtneyduinker.myflodesk.com/waitingwellwaitlist 
 
🤍 Faith-Filled Masterclasses:
✨ Finding Hope through Infertility – Learn how to live with peace and joy even while you wait ($17):👉 Grab it here
 
💍 Thrive in Marriage through TTC – Strengthen your marriage in the middle of this journey ($17):👉 Get it here
💌 Let’s Stay Connected:
📲 Follow me on Instagram for daily encouragement and behind-the-scenes: @thewiatingwellpodcast📬 Email: hello@courtneyduinker.com🌐 Website: courtneyduinker.com
 
💛 Did This Episode Encourage You?
If today’s episode blessed you, inspired you, or gave you a new perspective—would you consider leaving a review on Apple Podcasts? 🌟 It helps more women find hope in their waiting season—and I send a little thank-you gift to one reviewer each week!👉 Leave a review here

Monday May 05, 2025

💛 Episode Summary:
We’re Back! After a much-needed pause, today I’m sharing where I’ve been, what’s next for The Waiting Well podcast, and a heartfelt message for the woman feeling spiritually numb in her waiting season.
If your faith has felt flat… if you’ve wondered where God is in the silence… this episode will breathe fresh life into your weary heart. I’m walking you through 3 powerful, biblical ways to move from spiritual numbness to spiritual awakening—all through the lens of God as the Gardener pruning you for more fruit. 🌿
You are not forgotten. You are being formed. And this next season? It’s going to be rooted in peace and purpose 🌱
 
🔗 Links + Resources Mentioned:
💫 Ready for deeper, faith-based support on your fertility journey?
🌿 Join the waitlist for The Waiting Well Framework — an 8 week Christ-centered coaching container for Christian women navigating infertility. Be the first to know when we launch:👉 https://courtneyduinker.myflodesk.com/waitingwellwaitlist 
 
🤍 Faith-Filled Masterclasses:
✨ Finding Hope through Infertility – Learn how to live with peace and joy even while you wait ($17):👉 Grab it here
 
💍 Thrive in Marriage through TTC – Strengthen your marriage in the middle of this journey ($17):👉 Get it here
💌 Let’s Stay Connected:
📲 Follow me on Instagram for daily encouragement and behind-the-scenes: @thewiatingwellpodcast📬 Email: hello@courtneyduinker.com🌐 Website: courtneyduinker.com
 
💛 Did This Episode Encourage You?
If today’s episode blessed you, inspired you, or gave you a new perspective—would you consider leaving a review on Apple Podcasts? 🌟 It helps more women find hope in their waiting season—and I send a little thank-you gift to one reviewer each week!👉 Leave a review here

Sunday Dec 01, 2024

In today's episode, I interviewed a special guest, Anita, who just finished her 6-week Path to Motherhood Mentorship with me! Anita shares the big breakthrough she experienced during our time together and includes three tips on cultivating gratitude for your waiting season. Tune in to hear her amazing journey and story. 
 
 
🔗 Links + Resources Mentioned:
💫 Ready for deeper, faith-based support on your fertility journey?
🌿 Join the waitlist for The Waiting Well Framework — an 8 week Christ-centered coaching container for Christian women navigating infertility. Be the first to know when we launch:👉 https://courtneyduinker.myflodesk.com/waitingwellwaitlist 
 
🤍 Faith-Filled Masterclasses:
✨ Finding Hope through Infertility – Learn how to live with peace and joy even while you wait ($17):👉 Grab it here
 
💍 Thrive in Marriage through TTC – Strengthen your marriage in the middle of this journey ($17):👉 Get it here
💌 Let’s Stay Connected:
📲 Follow me on Instagram for daily encouragement and behind-the-scenes: @thewiatingwellpodcast📬 Email: hello@courtneyduinker.com🌐 Website: courtneyduinker.com
 
💛 Did This Episode Encourage You?
If today’s episode blessed you, inspired you, or gave you a new perspective—would you consider leaving a review on Apple Podcasts? 🌟 It helps more women find hope in their waiting season—and I send a little thank-you gift to one reviewer each week!👉 Leave a review here

Monday Nov 25, 2024

Have you ever been asked, “When are you guys going to start trying?” at a family gathering or holiday party? It can feel like a punch to the gut—unexpected, invasive, and maybe even a little painful. You might feel your face flush, your heart sink, and suddenly the moment's joy feels dimmed by that question's weight.
If this resonates with you, you’re not alone. In today’s episode, we’re diving into navigating these moments with grace and confidence, leaning on three Bible-based strategies to protect your heart and respond in a way that honors God.
You’ll leave this episode feeling seen, supported, and equipped with practical, faith-filled tools to approach the holidays with peace, no matter what questions come your way. Let’s tackle this together! 🎄✨
 
Looking for more support as you navigate the waiting season? Apply for the Path to Motherhood Mentorship Program - a faith-based fertility coaching program that provides personalized guidance, emotional healing, and spiritual support to help you find peace, purpose, and hope in your journey to conceive, all while deepening your trust in God’s perfect plan.
Final 3 spots for 2024 Path to Motherhood Mentorship click here: https://sown-with-strength.mykajabi.com/pathtomotherhood 
 
Get on the Waitlist for the upcoming Launch of THE WELL - https://sown-with-strength.mykajabi.com/thewellwailist 
 
If you are struggling with your thoughts and emotions around your TTC journey, I highly recommend snagging my 
Finding Hope through Infertility / TTC Masterclass - This masterclass will walk you through what you can implement today to start living in peace and joy during the waiting season - really growing closer to God despite the journey. I can't recommend it highly enough and it's on discount right now for only $25 to snag today! Grab that here: https://sown-with-strength.mykajabi.com/offers/HX2jMFL3?coupon_code=GIFT 
 
Or snag our 2nd Masterclass focused on MARRIAGE through TTC! Thrive in Marriage through TTC Masterclass can now be purchased and accessed as well for $37!https://sown-with-strength.mykajabi.com/offers/AA3zxPNv
^^ you can also snag the Finding Hope through TTC (transforming your thoughts while waiting) Masterclass for only $20 extra instead of the original $37 cost when you enroll for the Marriage Class as a discounted bonus!
Instagram: @courtneyduinkerConnect: courtney@sownwithstrength.com 
website: https://courtneyduinker.com/ 
 
If today's episode inspired, equipped or challenged you in anyway, please consider leaving a review on Apple Podcasts! This helps to show this podcast to other women who are alone in navigating infertility. I also send out a fun package to someone who leaves a review each week! Leave a review here, please!

Monday Nov 18, 2024

In this heartfelt episode, Courtney dives into the isolating feelings that often come when friends step into motherhood while you’re still waiting for your miracle. Drawing from her own journey and scripture, she shares three practical, faith-based strategies to help you stay connected, find peace, and protect your heart. Whether navigating pregnancy announcements, baby showers, or shifting friendships, this episode will equip you with tools to handle these challenges with grace and lean on God’s promises in the waiting.
Plus, learn more about how you enroll in Courtney’s Path to Motherhood Mentorship Program with only a few spots left for 2024. Don’t miss this encouraging and practical conversation!
Final 3 spots for 2024 Path to Motherhood Mentorship click here: https://sown-with-strength.mykajabi.com/pathtomotherhood 
 
Get on the Waitlist for the upcoming Launch of THE WELL - https://sown-with-strength.mykajabi.com/thewellwailist 
 
If you are struggling with your thoughts and emotions around your TTC journey, I highly recommend snagging my 
Finding Hope through Infertility / TTC Masterclass - This masterclass will walk you through what you can implement today to start living in peace and joy during the waiting season - really growing closer to God despite the journey. I can't recommend it highly enough and it's on discount right now for only $25 to snag today! Grab that here: https://sown-with-strength.mykajabi.com/offers/HX2jMFL3?coupon_code=GIFT 
 
Or snag our 2nd Masterclass focused on MARRIAGE through TTC! Thrive in Marriage through TTC Masterclass can now be purchased and accessed as well for $37!https://sown-with-strength.mykajabi.com/offers/AA3zxPNv
^^ you can also snag the Finding Hope through TTC (transforming your thoughts while waiting) Masterclass for only $20 extra instead of the original $37 cost when you enroll for the Marriage Class as a discounted bonus!
Instagram: @courtneyduinkerConnect: courtney@sownwithstrength.com 
website: https://courtneyduinker.com/ 
 
If today's episode inspired, equipped or challenged you in anyway, please consider leaving a review on Apple Podcasts! This helps to show this podcast to other women who are alone in navigating infertility. I also send out a fun package to someone who leaves a review each week! Leave a review here, please!

Monday Sep 23, 2024

I cry a little in this one-- some episodes just hit so deep and I'm right there again navigating the tumultuous sea of infertility. This episode is that. Full of emotion, connection, and God's Truth that we all need to hear. A can't miss episode.
We discuss happiness. The age-old happiness v. holiness topic and asking the question, does God care about my happiness? And if so, why can't I get pregnant? How do I reconcile the God who wants good for me and my circumstances of battling to conceive?
Press play, and let's chat about what God's Word says. 
Are you ready for more support on your fertility journey?
Learn more about how you enroll in Courtney’s Path to Motherhood Mentorship Program with only a few spots left for 2024. Don’t miss this encouraging and practical conversation!
Final 3 spots for 2024 Path to Motherhood Mentorship click here: https://sown-with-strength.mykajabi.com/pathtomotherhood 
 
Get on the Waitlist for the upcoming Launch of THE WELL - https://sown-with-strength.mykajabi.com/thewellwailist 
 
If you are struggling with your thoughts and emotions around your TTC journey, I highly recommend snagging my 
Finding Hope through Infertility / TTC Masterclass - This masterclass will walk you through what you can implement today to start living in peace and joy during the waiting season - really growing closer to God despite the journey. I can't recommend it highly enough and it's on discount right now for only $25 to snag today! Grab that here: https://sown-with-strength.mykajabi.com/offers/HX2jMFL3?coupon_code=GIFT 
 
Or snag our 2nd Masterclass focused on MARRIAGE through TTC! Thrive in Marriage through TTC Masterclass can now be purchased and accessed as well for $37!https://sown-with-strength.mykajabi.com/offers/AA3zxPNv
^^ you can also snag the Finding Hope through TTC (transforming your thoughts while waiting) Masterclass for only $20 extra instead of the original $37 cost when you enroll for the Marriage Class as a discounted bonus!
Instagram: @courtneyduinkerConnect: courtney@sownwithstrength.com 
website: https://courtneyduinker.com/ 
 
If today's episode inspired, equipped or challenged you in anyway, please consider leaving a review on Apple Podcasts! This helps to show this podcast to other women who are alone in navigating infertility. I also send out a fun package to someone who leaves a review each week! Leave a review here, please!

Monday Sep 16, 2024

Are you feeling impatient with God and His Timing?
Are you battling impatience and doubt?
Do you strive to trust God while waiting but you're really not sure how to do that? This episode is for you! 3 Tips to Actively Trust God while Waiting to Conceive!
 
Are you ready for more support on your fertility journey?
Learn more about how you enroll in Courtney’s Path to Motherhood Mentorship Program with only a few spots left for 2024. Don’t miss this encouraging and practical conversation!
Final 3 spots for 2024 Path to Motherhood Mentorship click here: https://sown-with-strength.mykajabi.com/pathtomotherhood 
 
Get on the Waitlist for the upcoming Launch of THE WELL - https://sown-with-strength.mykajabi.com/thewellwailist 
 
If you are struggling with your thoughts and emotions around your TTC journey, I highly recommend snagging my 
Finding Hope through Infertility / TTC Masterclass - This masterclass will walk you through what you can implement today to start living in peace and joy during the waiting season - really growing closer to God despite the journey. I can't recommend it highly enough and it's on discount right now for only $25 to snag today! Grab that here: https://sown-with-strength.mykajabi.com/offers/HX2jMFL3?coupon_code=GIFT 
 
Or snag our 2nd Masterclass focused on MARRIAGE through TTC! Thrive in Marriage through TTC Masterclass can now be purchased and accessed as well for $37!https://sown-with-strength.mykajabi.com/offers/AA3zxPNv
^^ you can also snag the Finding Hope through TTC (transforming your thoughts while waiting) Masterclass for only $20 extra instead of the original $37 cost when you enroll for the Marriage Class as a discounted bonus!
Instagram: @courtneyduinkerConnect: courtney@sownwithstrength.com 
website: https://courtneyduinker.com/ 
 
If today's episode inspired, equipped or challenged you in anyway, please consider leaving a review on Apple Podcasts! This helps to show this podcast to other women who are alone in navigating infertility. I also send out a fun package to someone who leaves a review each week! Leave a review here, please!

Sunday Aug 25, 2024

Are you struggling to open your Bible because of how you feel navigating your TTC journey right now? In this episode, I share 6 places to begin reading in your Bible when you feel overwhelmed and tired about the circumstances of your life. 
 
Are you ready for more support on your fertility journey?
Learn more about how you enroll in Courtney’s Path to Motherhood Mentorship Program with only a few spots left for 2024. Don’t miss this encouraging and practical conversation!
Final 3 spots for 2024 Path to Motherhood Mentorship click here: https://sown-with-strength.mykajabi.com/pathtomotherhood 
 
Get on the Waitlist for the upcoming Launch of THE WELL - https://sown-with-strength.mykajabi.com/thewellwailist 
If you are struggling with your thoughts and emotions around your TTC journey, I highly recommend snagging my 
Finding Hope through Infertility / TTC Masterclass - This masterclass will walk you through what you can implement today to start living in peace and joy during the waiting season - really growing closer to God despite the journey. I can't recommend it highly enough and it's on discount right now for only $25 to snag today! Grab that here: https://sown-with-strength.mykajabi.com/offers/HX2jMFL3?coupon_code=GIFT 
 
Or snag our 2nd Masterclass focused on MARRIAGE through TTC! Thrive in Marriage through TTC Masterclass can now be purchased and accessed as well for $37!https://sown-with-strength.mykajabi.com/offers/AA3zxPNv
^^ you can also snag the Finding Hope through TTC (transforming your thoughts while waiting) Masterclass for only $20 extra instead of the original $37 cost when you enroll for the Marriage Class as a discounted bonus!
Instagram: @courtneyduinkerConnect: courtney@sownwithstrength.com 
website: https://courtneyduinker.com/ 
 
If today's episode inspired, equipped or challenged you in anyway, please consider leaving a review on Apple Podcasts! This helps to show this podcast to other women who are alone in navigating infertility. I also send out a fun package to someone who leaves a review each week! Leave a review here, please!

Monday Aug 12, 2024

Are you afraid that God's plan for you may be never conceiving and becoming a mother? This fear went unspoken in my life for the first two years we were trying to conceive. 
In this episode, we dive into that unspoken fear - what if your worst fear is part of your story? What God has for you - finding peace with His Timing, His Plan and facing that fear of what if?
In this episode, I dive into Matthew 6:25-34 that commands us as believers not to be anxious. We connect the dots of this passage to Genesis when sin first entered the world. Jesus shows us what our response should be and how we can overcome that fear/anxiety around what our future will look like in the midst of struggling to conceive. 
Are you ready for more support on your fertility journey?
Learn more about how you enroll in Courtney’s Path to Motherhood Mentorship Program with only a few spots left for 2024. Don’t miss this encouraging and practical conversation!
Final 3 spots for 2024 Path to Motherhood Mentorship click here: https://sown-with-strength.mykajabi.com/pathtomotherhood 
 
Get on the Waitlist for the upcoming Launch of THE WELL - https://sown-with-strength.mykajabi.com/thewellwailist 
 
If you are struggling with your thoughts and emotions around your TTC journey, I highly recommend snagging my 
Finding Hope through Infertility / TTC Masterclass - This masterclass will walk you through what you can implement today to start living in peace and joy during the waiting season - really growing closer to God despite the journey. I can't recommend it highly enough and it's on discount right now for only $25 to snag today! Grab that here: https://sown-with-strength.mykajabi.com/offers/HX2jMFL3?coupon_code=GIFT 
 
Or snag our 2nd Masterclass focused on MARRIAGE through TTC! Thrive in Marriage through TTC Masterclass can now be purchased and accessed as well for $37!https://sown-with-strength.mykajabi.com/offers/AA3zxPNv
^^ you can also snag the Finding Hope through TTC (transforming your thoughts while waiting) Masterclass for only $20 extra instead of the original $37 cost when you enroll for the Marriage Class as a discounted bonus!
Instagram: @courtneyduinkerConnect: courtney@sownwithstrength.com 
website: https://courtneyduinker.com/ 
 
If today's episode inspired, equipped or challenged you in anyway, please consider leaving a review on Apple Podcasts! This helps to show this podcast to other women who are alone in navigating infertility. I also send out a fun package to someone who leaves a review each week! Leave a review here, please!

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